Committed Intimate Relationship (CIR) Lawyers In Tacoma
You built a life with your partner, but no marriage license ties it together. When the relationship ends, questions about property, finances and assets can arise quickly. If you need a committed intimate relationship lawyer in Tacoma, we can help you protect your interests.
With over 10 years of experience serving clients throughout Pierce County and beyond, our attorneys at The Steele Law Firm handle committed intimate relationship disputes with care and practical insight. We know the Pierce County Superior Court’s rules and judicial trends, which help us shape strategies around your circumstances. Our approach addresses complex business assets, jointly owned real estate and military-related concerns. We also emphasize mediation to help you pursue practical, private settlements without the cost and stress of litigation. Above all, we treat you as more than a case file and tailor our guidance to your goals and needs.
What Is A Committed Intimate Relationship Under Washington Law?
A Committed Intimate Relationship (CIR) under Washington law is a judge-made doctrine for a marriage-like and stable relationship between unmarried people who live together. Common-law marriages are not legally valid under Washington state law. If a couple separates, the court can apply CIR rules to divide any wealth or debt accumulated during their time together.
A judge may consider:
- The overall duration of the living arrangement
- The continuity of shared residence
- The fundamental purpose of the partnership
- The extent of joint financial resources and mutual goals
- The mutual intent and expectations of both parties
No single factor decides the issue. Our attorneys can review your relationship history and explain how a court may view it.
How Washington Courts Determine Property And Debt Division In A CIR
In determining whether a CIR exists, courts evaluate factors including continuous cohabitation, relationship duration, partnership purpose, jointly managing finances and the parties’ mutual intent. The court may treat a business started during a CIR as community-like property. These may include assets and debts tied to joint or individual efforts. Property owned before the relationship or received individually by gift or inheritance generally remains separate.
The court divides community-like property and debts in a just and equitable manner. Unlike in a marital divorce, Washington courts evaluating a CIR do not have the authority to distribute either partner’s separate property. A partner must file a CIR property claim within three years after the relationship ends.
How Is A Business Divided If It Was Started Or Expanded During A CIR?
A business started during a CIR may be treated as community-like property. The court can consider each partner’s financial contributions, labor and management when dividing it. Rather than requiring a sale, the court may use a valuation, buyout or offset with other assets.
A business owned before the CIR generally remains separate property. However, value added or expansion during the CIR may be subject to division when joint funds, labor or other contributions increase its value. The non-owner partner must show how those contributions supported the business’s growth.
We provide practical guidance tailored to high-asset professionals, business owners and military service members.
Call Us Today To Plan Your Next Step In Tacoma
We offer consultations, so you can talk with our committed intimate relationship attorneys at a time that works for you. Call The Steele Law Firm at 253-697-0421 or fill out our contact form to discuss your legal options.

